Sometimes I think back to a couple of years ago and wonder how on earth I ended up married to my wife. After all, I definitely wasn’t looking for a long-term relationship. I’d recently joined DirtyRoulette sex chat for some video fun with strangers, and the last thing I was expecting was to find true love.
The first thing I did after joining Dirty Roulette was head straight for the video chats, and it didn’t take long before I started meeting plenty of hot women. It’s not that every single person I met was exactly my type, but with all the variety on the site it wasn’t difficult to find the right video chat partners. I just figured that it was a safe, anonymous way to have some fun after a long day at work, and it felt great to know that I could always find someone who wanted to join me in a sex chat.
I certainly had a good time during the first few chat sessions, but nobody really stood out at the beginning. Eventually I started meeting women who actually piqued my interest, but since I wasn’t looking for anything more than one-time flings, I just enjoyed the sex chats for what they were and then moved on. Even though I wasn’t looking for love, I’d actually thought this through a bit: safety is important, so I wasn’t going to hand out my contact information to just anyone. And since DirtyRoulette only matches people at random (you can’t revisit old flames, in other words), that was an easy decision to make.
Then I met the woman who’s now my wife, and I could immediately tell that something was different. I thought she was super sexy, and we had some pretty great webcam sex, but that isn’t what stood out to me; after all, I wasn’t exactly a stranger to video sex chats. We both pleasured ourselves, then we talked…and then we talked some more. This had never happened before. Some of it was dirty, most of it was flirty, and all of it was deeply satisfying. After a certain point, I realized that it was time for me to either leave and never see her again, or make a hail-Mary pass and give her my phone number. It felt weird asking a woman to accept my number instead of trying to get hers, but that’s online dating for you. As you may have guessed, she accepted my number – and texted me within an hour of leaving the chat.
Even though that was the official start of our relationship, neither of us stopped video sex chatting immediately; we kept it pretty casual for a while. After a few months, though, it became pretty clear where things were headed. Video sex chats had turned into steamy late-night texts, which turned into in-person dates. And to top it all off, we finally got married a few months ago, and I still can’t believe that I met this gorgeous woman on a video sex chat site.